Children living in homes where there is domestic violence and abuse grow up in an atmosphere of fear, uncertainty and insecurity. Many children assume they are responsible for the situation because they feel they’ve been “bad,” or have not been “good enough.” They may develop a variety of coping mechanisms to help them survive in the abusive home, but such mechanisms all too often have profound negative effects on the child’s development.
A child living with, and witnessing, domestic violence and abuse may experience the following feelings:
- Fear, grief, despair, shame
- Anger, rage, distrust, hostility
- Worthlessness and inadequacy
- Guilt self-blame
- Extreme loneliness
- Abandonment
- Powerlessness
- Helplessness
- Exaggerated fear of new situations or people
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